Friday, June 12, 2009

My Pop

My Pop. An amazing man. Born June 29, 1930 he has witnessed and experienced many things. I knew him as my dad my whole life, began knowing him as a man when I was 18 and then as a friend, mentor and teacher I could not get enough of when I became a mother some 26 years ago.

I've cried on my dad's shoulder, have been held and nursed by him during sickness, advised through all business decision, taught and inspired through his art and loved by his being.

I am typing this from my dad's computer in his museum of an office in the center of his home in San Antonio, TX. I hitched a ride with friends and after four years of geographic distance was able to put my arms around him. I shed tears and held on.

As long as I am allowed to live I will never know all there is about this incredible man and the many lives he has touched. Once things for certain, he has filled my heart with love.

(I love you, Pop!)

Saturday, June 6, 2009

Spoon Frogs

Each Spring I get very excited about each and every new bloom and blossom in my garden. While my garden is small, it never fails to delight me with wonderful flowers and memorable fragrances.

The blooms beg me not to leave them on their stem – so the only thing to do is cut a few and bring them indoors to enjoy every minute.
Sometimes I use one of the many floral frogs in my collection. But one of my favorite ways to display my posies is with a spoon frog.
I simply take three or four pretty spoons that I have found at tag sales and use them to prop the flowers up. You can turn the spoons up for more support or put the stem of the spoon up. It's sweet spring in a dessert cup! The display is elegant, a nice conversation piece, practical and very inexpensive.
I hope you'll try it.



Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Laundry Tips from Mama - (Print & Post)

“Excess can cause troubles.” – Mama
“Lazy today causes stress tomorrow.” - Mama

(Written to share with my girls.)
Over the years I have come up with short cuts and tips for doing laundry; I wanted to share them with you. As you begin your family you will find what works now that they will be keeping their own home. best for your household and will be able to amend, add or cut out some of the below.

Here are some suggestions:

Minimize Your Clean Clothes
When you inventory your clothing you allow yourself time saving in the laundry department and add time for more valued events. Pack off season clothing in clear plastic tubs or in extra dresser drawers. Donate or give unused current seasonal clothing to same size friends and family or others in need. You know the saying: “If you haven’t worn it in a year…”. As for socks; minimize your socks to only 2 weeks worth including dress socks and athletic socks.

Minimize Your Linens
It’s tempting to have lots of towels and several sets of sheets but this will cause more laundry in the long run. Keep 2 towels per person available (one hanging for use and the other in the linen closet) and only one set of sheets per bed (exception: crib). If you must have 2 sets of sheets per bed try to not get the other sheet out unless there has been an illness or accident and an immediate change is needed. Kitchen towels, dish clothes and bathroom hand towels and washcloths take up very little laundry space and due to the need for a fresh, clean one each day it is nice to have 2 weeks worth in your linen closet.

From Clean to Dirty

Taking off Dirty Clothes
When you take off your dirty clothes it’s a good opportunity to save time when it comes to doing laundry by cuffing your socks together, empty pockets, take underwear out of pants, turn darks inside out (to avoid excessive fading). Take to the laundry room or place in hamper immediately.

If your jeans are not truly dirty and you have only worn them one time there is no sin in folding them nicely and placing them in an “only worn once” pile in your closet. If your pants are dirty whether soiled or with odor; don’t risk it – laundry them.

Dirty Bath Towel
When you are finished with your bath towel (which can easily last 2 days without laundering) take it to the laundry room and lay it over a basket or the washer so it doesn’t get other clothes wet. Get out a fresh towel right away and put it on your bathroom hook so you won’t drip after tomorrow’s shower looking for a towel.

Bed Linens and Bath Rugs & Shower Curtains
Plan each week to do one of the following: Wash all sheets or wash all rugs and bathroom shower curtains. Don’t try to do them both on the same week or you may run out of time and find they will pile up in the laundry room and the old cycle continues; you pull out your emergency linens and use those.

Laundry Room Prep
You laundry room should not be hated. Create a working and efficient room by keeping it well stocked and clean. Always have detergent, bleach, stain remover, grease remover, fabric softener, delicate bags, plastic hangers and laundry baskets (no more than 1 per person) on hand and easy to reach.

Sorting & Loading
The most efficient way to do laundry is to sort as when you have dirtied your laundry. Take your clothes in to the laundry room right away daily and place in the appropriate laundry basket. If this is not possible, or just too much to start out with, you can take a little extra time and sort as you do laundry. When you sort your clothes you can begin to see the priority needed for cleaning; this considering you have followed the recommendations of limiting your clean clothes and linens.

Stain & Grease Removal
For stains, wet the area that has the stain and spray or gently rub the mild stain remover on the area. Let the clothing item sit while the wash tub fills with water. I wouldn’t let the piece of clothing sit long enough for the stain remover to dry on the item.

For removal of greasy work clothes; fill the wash tub with warm water on the rinse cycle and add 1 cup of Pine-sol. Place greasy clothing in washer and let the clothes run through the rinse mixture cycle. Once washer stops wash and rinse the clothing as normal using cold water.

Loading Clothes
Start the washer and put the appropriate amount of recommended laundry detergent in washer. Place washer settings on the correct load size and water temperature for the amount and type of clothing. Do not over load the washer for the following reasons: 1) Clothing will not get completely clean (hazardous if you are trying to kill bacteria); 2) Clothing can mildew or sour if left too long in washer; 3) You may damage your washer’s balance mechanism.

Delicates
There should be a ‘gentle’ cycle on your washer; if not set your regular wash cycle to a few minutes of wash (usually 6-8 minutes). Place gentle garments in a nylon zip bag. Small delicate items can share a bag although bras should have their own bag so they don’t snag other delicates with their clasps. Always secure bra clasps before washing to avoid tangling, stretching and snagging.

Bleaching
If bleach is necessary follow both your washer’s instructions and the bleach instructions to avoid yellowing and bleach-out spots on fabric. Most often, bleach is added to the last 5 minutes of your wash cycle.

Cloth Baby Diapers
Some prep work may be helpful. Fill a rubber/plastic trashcan or solid hamper with water and 1 ½ cups of bleach; after you have rinsed the cloth diaper out in the toilet, place the soiled diaper in the bleach-water hamper and cover. Once the hamper is full of dirty diapers (or ever other day which ever comes first); pour entire contents into the washer. Place the washer on the rinse cycle and hot water; let the dirty diapers run through the rinse mixture cycle. Once washer stops, wash and rinse the diapers as normal using cold water and your baby detergent. I recommend not adding bleach to the wash cycle but if you must, then you’ll want to rinse diapers twice after the wash cycle to avoid irritation to baby’s skin (bleach and baby made ammonia don’t mix).

Drying Clothing
Line drying is always recommended for the care of your clothing as well as the energy efficiency. Place clothing in the dryer as soon as possible after the wash cycle ends to avoid spoiling or run-on colors. Always check to ensure the dryer filter is clean and empty; the left over lint may be able to cause a fire. Set clothing on the shortest dry time for the amount and weight of clothing necessary; this will save energy. Add a dryer sheet to avoid static. Finish the dry time with a cool down to avoid unnecessary wrinkles. Hang or fold clothing right away to ensure the least amount of wrinkles. Put clothing away immediately. By putting your clothes away immediately you free up room to do more laundry effectively and avoid clean clothes getting mixed up with dirty clothes (this happens a lot with socks) or the overwhelming feeling of too much when you enter your laundry room.

Ahhh Washed and Dried

Hanging Clothing
Hang all shirts facing left; this allows you to view the front of each shirt at a glance.
Hang pants without a crease; this helps avoid shifting creases and helps to eliminate ironing. If you must hang pants with a crease, begin by holding the pants from the bottom cuff to create the crease then fold by laying the pants on the dryer, once you have the crease where and how you like it, simply slide the pant legs through a plastic hanger or clip the pant cuffs with the clips on a pant-hanger.

For sweaters, its best to fold and place on a shelf or in a drawer however, if you must hang this is the best way to avoid stretching or hanger pulls. Place sweater flat on the dryer, fold lengthwise lining up shoulders and arms; fold (long) arms so the hem of the arm is lying on the hem of the sweater, fold sweater down in half, slide hanger through final fold. Another hanging method for sweaters is to place sweater flat on the dryer, fold lengthwise lining up shoulders and arms, place the hanger hook in the underarm of the sweater and wrap the body of the sweater on the one side of the hanger (where a shirt shoulder would hang) and the arms around the other side of the hanger.

Folding Clothes & Linens
Fold clothes with the least amount of folds to avoid excessive wrinkles. For t-shirts grab the shirt at the seam just under the armpit, shake the shirt so it falls straight. Fold the shirt in half horizontal across the chest of the shirt. Front facing down, fold one side of the shirt in so there is only 2-3 inches from the neck to the fold, tuck under the sleeve and do the same to the other side of the shirt, now fold the bottom up. Flip the shirt over and ensure the folds are centered and symmetric; this guarantees a crisp look when you get it out of your drawer for wear.

Small items, like underwear and baby items may be better laid flat. Always fold your bras so the cup is full; invert one cup to the other and fold the sides and straps behind to fill in. This keeps your bra from getting creased and disfigured.

Sheets and blankets are best folded corner to corner horizontal first then vertical the rest of the folds until it is a manageable size; once small enough finish with a horizontal fold. For fitted sheets do the same type folding but always place one corner into the other corner until flat then corner to corner placing boxed sides towards the inside of all folds. A demonstration may be in order.

Baby blankets and burp towels should be folded so it can be easily opened by one hand with a quick whipping motion. This way when you need one of these items you won’t have to put the baby down to access use.

Hopefully, these tips will help get you out of the laundry room and enjoying life quicker!
With Love,
Mama

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

When the Dust Settles

Since April 30th, I have been transitioning to life outside my brick-n-mortar Red Books & Chairs. The final days were literally packed with activity including a final 80% reduction sale, organizing non-profit charity pick ups, coordinating trash pick up (funny how much stuff a junker accumulates with a 'project' in mind), endless vacuuming and an overall dusting of the permanent fixtures.
A final turn of the key, a turn about like a guard at Buckingham Palace, no glance back; no taunt to my fragile emotional state. Off I traveled to the next page which came quick.
Everything has happened so fast with not a moment to ponder so with that, not a minute to miss.
The past couple of weeks have been spent painting, organizing and last night...setting up internet with the help of my techno daughter and a friend (yes, both from the technology generation!). So, now I look forward to digging in to start my home studio and produce hand mades to my heart's content.
Still no sadness for the finale of my B&M. I haven't been back to see the empty building standing, waiting for someone with a dream to fill it with the spirit of God's gifts. I look forward to seeing who gets the dust stirring again in that old historic building!

Saturday, March 28, 2009

50% Off!

I know, the percent sign is backwards...oh well, come in anyways!
Once the decision was made to close the store it is difficult to continue to be here. Don't get me wrong; its fun ringing up all the sales & seeing many of my loyal customers but the difficult part is to see my little vintage cottage store in what I would call 'disarray'.
I am so thankful for those of you that love salvaged items and will give these lovelies a great place either at your home or your store. I delight in the thought that they will not be put in a dumpster; rather they will have a treasured spot where someone will bring the past to the present with such love.
I think if you see it & have a great feeling about it...then buy it. The sweetness you will feel every time you pass it in your own space is worth the purchase. Hopefully, you will be able to find something that warms your heart at my sale!
I will be bringing things in from home, down from store loft, out from the inside 'shed' and from my almost unnecessary storage unit! So, stop by each week.
A little side note: RB&C will be closed April 17 & 18 for a family reunion. Many of you read my sister's blog as well as mine; there is doubt we will both blog about the experience! Stay tuned.

Thursday, March 26, 2009

25% Off!


Last Saturday, I worked at the store until midnight. I was pulling all my displays apart; putting like items in areas around the store. I put all shutters up front, lamps on the stair case, dishes on the front display, linens on the vintage bed, etc.

If you’ve been to my store you know that I like to display rather than warehouse items so while this rearranging is probably helpful to those looking for something specific, it’s awkward for me to look at. The store is no longer like walking through my favorite magazine.

So after I left last Saturday I was happy with my progress knowing that the next day I would be having a private sale for business owners only. I got to the store around 11:30 Sunday morning with anticipation. I had the best helpers (Ginger, Phyllis, Tiffany, Marla & my Elizabeth) on hand to help. The sale was from 1:00 – 5:00 pm and would you believe there were a couple of people waiting at the door when I opened? This was a very hopeful site!

By 2:30 the ‘crowd’ was gone and for the next two and a half hours I piddled around the store and read my newest Romantic Homes.

Wednesday I opened the door with a 25% off sale and was flooded! Many regular customers came in to get some goodies and give sweet hugs. So now, until March 30th you too can get 25% off everything in the store (except fixtures/displays marked).

My life pages are turning slowly from one to another and I have to admit, it turns with some sorrow. I am, however, keeping a little list of things I want to do after the new page begins the next chapter. Here are some examples:
Sleep in on Saturdays
Walk around the square and C-Street visiting all the stores (their open hours are the same as mine at RB&C so I haven’t been able to visit)
Write, write, write (including more blogging)
Sew, sew, sew (& put on Etsy)
Visit my mom in Arkansas
Babysit my grandbaby more
See more of my family
The list will continue to grow I’m sure.

I hope to see you soon!

Saturday, March 21, 2009

Turn the Page

Opening day @ RB&C

What if you took each opportunity, walked through every open door, accepted every gift, entertained risks, relied on faith? Would you have disappointments, failures, losses or finales? Yes. But if you are true in your intent, don’t manipulate others and rely on God’s direction it will be worth it with blessings to boot.

Red Books & Chairs has been a life long dream since I was a little child. I would clip pictures from magazines and make drawings of what I hoped it would be like. The passion for a vintage cottage store has always been with me and in 2006 it became a reality – a dream come true.

The financial risk, the unending tick of the watch, the unexpected business details, the friendships built are all bi-products of plunging into a dream.

When a person has even one single day to live their dream it is a memory never forgotten. Now, two and a half years after Red Books & Chairs opened it is time to turn the page to another adventure. Although nearly every adventure is not without grim & glee, the experience and memories make each new page of life worth exploring.

Many of you have become dear friends and I will certainly miss seeing you each month on your visits to C-Street, but have no fear! I will be active on-line and at local shows. If you receive my monthly e-newsletter you will still be notified when I am out in the public showcasing my new creations. And of course you know you can find me each 1st Friday right here shopping my favorite stores on C-Street!
There will always be a bookmark in my life at the pages of Red Books & Chairs.

Keep checking my blog as I detail how the closing of RB&C progresses through April.

Hope to see you soon!
Jennifer